Thursday, November 3, 2011

Suzhou orphanage


Yesterday we took a CRH Bullet Train from Nanjing to Suzhou to visit Hannah's orphanage. It was the first time on a bullet train. It was really nice inside. Like a Boeing 757 without the wheels, and no seat belts on the chairs. Although it was a super smooth ride, like we were gliding on air. The top speed was 305 km/hr (about 200 mph)!! The train ride went smoothly as well. No issues getting on the train and no delays. Once we arrived in Suzhou we took a taxi to the orphanage. Again, no seat belts but the top speed was only probably 30 km/hr. The orphanage is tucked back in what felt like a side street. It was a single lane pseudo-paved road, "psuedo" because it was so rundown. All of a sudden, our guide says "here it is at the gate". We got out of the taxi and walked through a large steel gate with cameras mounted on the gate and buildings.

The Suzhou Wellfare Institute is not only an orphanage, but a residential facility for eldery as well. It seemed like a little gem mixed in with all the mundane. It seemed really clean and bright. The was space and room for cars to park and people to walk. We hardly saw anybody when we first walk onto the property...it felt so expansive. We were escorted to the second floor of the administration building via glass elevator and into a meeting room. Waiting for us was about a half dozen plates with oranges and what looked like tomatoes. It was the same fruit I had seen on Hannah's birthday cake we sent to her about 6 weeks ago. Hannah's eyes lit up! She remembered the fruit and asked for some right away. Jen peeled an orange for her and she ate it right up. She went through 3 oranges in about 20 minutes!!! After settling in for a few minutes, the deputy director, who we met a couple of days ago at the Civil Affairs office, and another director of the orphanage joined us in the meeting room. We shared some small talk about Hannah's future in Minnesota and her potential surgeries for her extremities. We then handed them our red bag gift and they signed a book we had brought along. We then headed for the orphanage.

It was a surreal experience to say the least. We had mixed feelings about whether or not Hannah had spent anytime here, but she seemed familiar with certain places, like the playground (where nearly all our pre-adoption photos were taken) and the room she supposedly slept in. We met the woman who took care of her, the same woman who Hannah cried for the first day we met her. Hannah's reaction was guarded. She was not as excited to see her as the woman was to see Hannah. We were asked to put on some blue booties, similar to the ones I wear for surgery or like the ones you were when touring a house for sale. We also had to sanitize our hands. Then we entered her room. It was a large room with nearly 30 cribs. Each one had a little orphaned child with special needs. Both Jen and I's first reaction, was that they all appeared to be significantly younger than Hannah, like 18-24 months old. Hannah turned 3 yrs old about 5 weeks ago. Little strange. I won't go into great detail, but all the kids looked like they were missing something--a family. It was a tough site to see.

We finished the tour of the orphanage and had a little lunch with the staff members who led the tour. I will be the first to admit that I was skeptical about what might be served, but it was surprisingly delicious! Hands down, the best meal we had to this point. I was even as adventurous to try eel. And I actually liked it, but not enough to take a second bite. The lunch ended when the staff presented Jen and I with a gift, a small wood framed art piece.

We then headed by car to Hannah's finding spot. This was quite emotional for me. Each orphan in China has a finding ad placed in the local newspaper for a period of time, so the parents can reclaim them. Unfortunately, nearly all of the orphans are brought to the orphanage and never reclaimed by their biological parents. We spent a few minutes soaking in the fact that Hannah's parents have reclaimed her forever and will never abandon her again.

Hannah was pretty exhausted at this point, so we decided to head back to the train station to get some rest. What a mistake! She was wired beyond belief. She has a fascination with escalators, so Jen and Jin took turns riding the escalator. We had 2 hours to pass. So the escalator was a nice distraction, we also took turns letting Hannah put stickers on our face, and in my case, on my glasses. Hannah eventually fell asleep in Jen's arms about 20 minutes before we needed to get on the train. Fortunately, she slept the entire 80 minute train ride. Jen was exhausted from carrying Hannah all day. We bought a stroller the day before from Walmart, but our guide told us that it would be useless. Should have went with our parental instincts!

An interesting story from the train station...as we were waiting to travel back to the hotel. I felt a tug on my shirt. Strange since the only people I knew in China were sitting on my right side. It was a woman about 50-60 years old and she held her hand out. She was a begger asking me for some change. I instinctively shook my head "no." But then I realized she had similar looking hands as Hannah. 2 or 3 of her fingers on her right hand were shortened. Internally, I gasped. Not in disgust, but in realizing that this woman might have represented Hannah several years from now.

I am still processing all of yesterdays happenings, and I'm sure I will for a long time ahead. All I know is that I am grateful for God's calling into our lives to bring our beautiful little girl home where she will have access to so much more!


Suzhou train station


My two cutties!


Wall outside the taxi loading dock


The road leading up to Hannah's orphanage


The sign outside of her orphanage


Walking into the orphanage


Waiting for our tour


The 3 of us in front of a pagoda


The view walking up to the orphanage


Hannah carried this orange with her the entire tour. This photo was taken in the playroom.


Outside at the playground


She loved the trampoline


A view of one of the walkways.



Another pagoda-family picture


Sitting down for lunch


Hannah took down this entire plate of mini shrimp. Apparently she likes shrimp, who knew!


The plate of eel (we were told that eel is 4 times more expensive that beef)


One last piggyback ride


The road leading to Hannah's finding spot


I captured this one at the police station where she was brought to after being found


Play time in bed before heading to the pool



Let's go already



Michael Phelps showed up at the Mandarin Garden Hotel...celebrities are everywhere!! The Chinese call him the "flying fish". And yes, that is a pastel rainbow swim cap, as required by the hotel for adult swim.


Hannah not too sure about the pool


But she warmed up quickly and we had a lot of fun splashing


The pool was a little chilly so we got warmed up in a towel.


The pool


Corn on the cob!!! Hannah is ready for the State Fair next year!!!

7 comments:

  1. she is soooo cute and she looks so happy.:)

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  2. I just love this! She looks so happy with you, it is clear it was meant to be! Blessings on you all!

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  3. Do you ever wonder why the Creator of the universe, the one who instills in us gifts to be used to share with others exposed your gift to creativity (photography) about 3 years ago? I'm sitting on a couch in Vail thinking about how amazing He is and how cool it is that you are on a trip of a lifetime, bringing home your daughter and at the same time documenting images that are truly beautiful. If you never shoot another family portrait or wedding (and you will) look at how you were able to capture bringing home your daughter. There is something really powerful about that to me and I sure hope you see it as well. A gift exposed to capture images yet an even bigger gift to bring home your daughter! Congratulations....Praying for the remainder of your trip and for your return to home. Peace to you both!! Love you guys!!!

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  4. Hi Guys,

    Pics are great...what a cutie-pie :) Omi is a big shrimp lover too :) Oh Kyle...sorry, but I had to laugh and laugh at the bathing cap :):):) So much fun following your journey...takes my mind off moving!!! God is AWESOME and SO FAITHFUL!!! Enjoy every second...goes by quick...then you can't stop thinking about China and the children :) We love you guys so much :) I am crying again....it happens alot when I follow blogs to China :):):) Can't wait to skype with you at Brie and Bryan's :) Love the fact that Mark wrote his longest ever e-mail to you guys :):):) Blessings and more Hugs :) Patti

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  5. Hannah's smile is amazing!!! Love reading about your journey. I feel like I am right there traveling with you. Blessings, Karen

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  6. Oh what a vibrant and gorgeous little girl Hannah is. Her smiles are incredible. I am guessing you already cannot remember life before her. "Miracle" is one of the words on my son's spelling list this week and everytime we've practiced it, I've thought of you this week. So very happy for your family.
    Heather Felt

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  7. Dear Kyle, Jenn, Caedon, Hannah, and Norah,
    Mike and I are so happy that you are all finally together. Your family is beautiful, and we cried as we read your story of bringing Hannah home.
    I recently read "Leave me Alone, I'm reading" by Maureen Corrigan, and she relates her experience of adopting her daughter Molly from China. She tells how the first few days were difficult and Molly would not eat, yet Hannah's immediate trust and faith is in you and Kyle is evident in her quick smile, loving kisses and wonderful appetite.
    May God continue to bless your lovely family and may He continue to bring much love in your lives.
    Natala Orobello

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